I don't think that it's that complicated.Tortoise wrote:What about the bad situations we are unable to reverse engineer? What about the really, really bad stuff that just happens to some people through absolutely no fault of their own?MediumTex wrote: When I read the book, it hit me like an anvil.
It made me realize that it's not necessary to be unhappy simply because you feel trapped by dogmatic beliefs.
It also reminded me of how important it is to reverse engineer bad situations in life to help avoid getting into them in the first place.
How does a person who believes that religion is just a pragmatic self-help program--a warm, fuzzy bedtime story with no objective reality--come to terms with that?
The only meaningful (i.e., not nihilistic) explanation I've seen regarding bad things often happening to good people is that God in His sovereignty uses all things--both good and bad, including the effects of sin and human free will--to somehow work together to accomplish His ultimate plan. And in that view, everything that happens in our lives--good and bad--can be seen as a type of divine trial by fire that either consumes us or purifies us like gold, depending on how we spiritually receive it:
In the whole land, declares the Lord,
two thirds shall be cut off and perish,
and one third shall be left alive.
And I will put this third into the fire,
and refine them as one refines silver,
and test them as gold is tested.
They will call upon my name,
and I will answer them.
I will say, ‘They are my people’;
and they will say, ‘The Lord is my God.’(Zechariah 13:8-9, ESV)
I think that unfortunately the world can just sometimes be a harsh place to both individual creatures (like ourselves), as well as to entire species (like our own), and there isn't really any "message" to be teased out of these unfortunate events. They just happen, in the same way that it just happened that life on this planet included human beings. God may have been behind all of this (in which case he would be behind the bad things that happen as well), but the only real evidence we have for this is based upon the narratives that we have ourselves projected and imposed upon a chaotic world.
If anyone has a grievance against God for bad things happening to good people, it would probably be the Neanderthals. If God is in control of everything, I would say that the Neanderthals would have had reason to be very disappointed in God's plan for them. It's easy to rationalize the extinction of an animal with no self-awareness, but when we start talking about a bipedal mammal with a brain larger than our own, it's less easy to rationalize them being wiped off the face of the earth if a kind and loving supreme being is in control of everything.
I think that one can see the world as an essentially chaotic and occasionally very "unfair" place without drifting inescapably toward nihilism. I think that one's tendency toward nihilism says more about them than the nature of the world. Some of the most cheerful and optimistic people you will ever meet have endured terrible tragedies along the way. OTOH, some of the most gloomy people really don't have that much to be gloomy about.
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So yeah, you could say that I was full of rage. I was angry. My whole species got wiped out, and those f-in Cro-Magnons never missed an opportunity to rub it in, especially when they would remind us that God made them in his image, and that we were just an evolutionary glitch in God's plan for them. But here's the thing: I realized one day that I didn't have to let that define me. I didn't have to let the knowledge get me down that my Cro-Magnon-descended friends and neighbors have a shot at immortality, while I just get to feed the worms. So first I started attending motivational seminars and programs, and pretty soon I found that I had my own inspirational message to share, and that's what I've been doing for the past four years, and what can I say, I visualized success and I eventually became a magnet for that success. And here's the thing: If I can do it, you can do it too.
