This post may cause him to re-think that observation.

When people talk about whether intelligent alien life exists, they normally do it in a yes/no framework, as if once an alien species became sophisticated enough for space travel (or intergalactic communication) they would more or less remain at that level of sophistication indefinitely (or perhaps continue to advance).
Based upon this conceptual framework, the biggest challenge when thinking about the alien question often seems to be overcoming the vastness of the distances in space.
I would suggest that when thinking about the alien issue we also consider the vastness of time.
Here is what I mean: If the trajectory of human development is any indication, higher intelligence manifesting itself in complex societies is the product of two things: (i) intelligent life, either expressed consciously or unconsciously (I would consider ants to have a high level of unconscious intelligence), and (ii) the necessary resource inputs to translate the abstractions created by the higher intelligence into forms and tools that make up the expression of the complex society.
If the above process is more or less what any complex life form would follow through its life cycle (i.e., abstract intelligence manifesting itself through some type of complex society), then we are faced with the probability that over the vastness of time there have possibly been countless complex life forms throughout the universe that have come into existence, fully expressed themselves in a symbiotic relationship with their environment and then disappeared, exactly as so many species of life have done on our own planet.
The implications of this idea are not good for those looking for alien contact. Here's why: If we assume that any kind of intelligent life we would be interested in is likely to be sparsely distributed around the universe to begin with, and we also consider that through the continuum of time intelligent life is also likely to be a relatively brief phenomenon ("brief" meaning even millions of years), then we would have to be extraordinarily lucky to encounter a life form of the type we are hoping to find at the point in time we happen to be looking for it.
Let me provide an analogy to illustrate what I am saying. Imagine there is a one million acre ranch and you hear a legend that every hundred years on a single weekend a headless cowboy rides directly across some part of the ranch on a gleaming white stallion. You decide you want to go check it out for yourself and you set up camp on one part of the ranch for a weekend to see if you can see the headless cowboy. Even if the headless cowboy story is true, what are the chances that you are going to be at the right part of the ranch at the right point in time to see it, given that you only have one weekend to make an observation? When considering the vastness of cosmic time, humanity's observation window is little more than the weekend in my example.
Now consider a different analogy. Let's say that the headless cowboy story involves a regular sized rodeo arena. This is an area that you can stake out fully and anything that rides across it you will presumably see, except the frequency of the headless cowboy's ride is once every 10,000 years. If you stake out the rodeo arena for a weekend what are the chances that you will see the headless cowboy? If you staked out the rodeo arena for 100 years, what are the chances that you would see the headless cowboy? My point here is that even if the distances in space weren't as vast as they are, the probability of finding the intelligent life we are looking for is still pretty small simply based upon the vastness of time (and assuming that intelligent life manifesting in complex societies is a relatively transitory phenomenon on the scale of cosmic time).
I think that one of the reasons that the vastness of time doesn't get enough attention when thinking about these things is that science fiction doesn't focus much on this issue. Normally, science fiction will acknowledge the distances of space and provide some type of method for overcoming them (e.g., "hyper-drive"). When it comes to time, though, about the best science fiction can do is provide for time travel that takes you from one point in time to another, but there is normally no mechanism for scanning vast periods of time when looking for something like intelligent life. Instead, when dealing with the time continuum issue, science fiction will normally presuppose that you already know what point in time you are looking for and then provide some means of getting you there.
To address the problem I am describing, we would need some way of scanning the entire volume of an object (I don't know if it would be a sphere or a cube or something else), where the bottom is the beginning of time and the top is the end of time (or you could make the top the present, which might make it a little shorter

It's certainly possible that there are intelligent alien life forms that transcend the bounds of time and/or space, in which case the analysis above wouldn't be problematic, but once we begin talking about this type of alien (or other) life it begins to resemble something much more akin to a deity or some other supernatural phenomena, which is a different discussion.
Even if the aliens have patiently waited around for us to become sophisticated enough to communicate with them (as in "2001: A Space Odyssey"), if the aliens were to check in on the earth (and other earth-like planets) every million years or so to see how our evolution was progressing, on the scale of cosmic time that would require them to be constantly checking in on a near infinite number of planets, assuming all the while that the aliens didn't have any of their own species survival challenges to deal with.
In other words, I think the probability of having contact with intelligent alien life is much smaller than is commonly imagined.
[MediumTex removes Isaac Asimov hat off and takes deep breath.]