I did have cats, mostly one, but once I had two - unfortunately I didn't understand cat behavior and interaction, and thought they'd just get along and be pleasant companions. If I ever did it again, I'd learn enough to set up a good system to help them work things out better, as a friend of mine did.WiseOne wrote: Jafs, have you ever owned cats, as in at least two simultaneously? They beautifully demonstrate how collaboration, peaceful co-existence, and competition can all be present in the same individuals.
Actually let me turn the thread topic around for a moment. What is it about Ted Cruz do people like so much? I'm completely mystified by that. And unfortunately, if Trump doesn't get the nomination, Ted Cruz likely will.
There's no problem with those things co-existing - the problem comes when the "other guy" is demonized and hated, and the goal becomes to defeat them at all costs. In PS's example, the traditional thing to do would have been to discuss and compromise, coming to something that wasn't ideal for either side, but included enough of their concerns to be viable.
We don't seem to do much/enough of that these days in politics.
Another thought about PS's example - there are sometimes ideas that would be win-win that don't get enough airtime, like legalizing drugs. Much of the prison population, especially minority groups, are incarcerated for minor (in my view) non-violent drug offenses. It's expensive to find, arrest, prosecute and lock people up, particularly with more for-profit prisons. If we legalized drugs, we could save all of that money, and possibly re-direct it to treatment/education/job training programs without needing to spend/raise more money, especially if we taxed the sale of them, as we do with alcohol.
As the price of drugs fell, there would be fewer violent crimes related to them as well.