stone wrote:
Some people walk towards you and ask something- do you tell them to step back or be shot? You give them the benefit of the doubt and speak to them -they punch you- do you immediately compose yourself and whip out your gun? In a society where everyone has guns do you shoot anyone who approaches you in the street?
This topic cannot be fully explained via a short text synopsis, but here goes:
You have a personal space around you. No one has the right to invade your personal space. The radius of that space depends on you, and your surroundings. If you live in NYC, be prepared to have a very short radius around you because people will bump into you all day. If you live in rural Kansas walking through a field, that radius might be 10 feet.
No one has the right to invade your reasonable personal space. Can you imagine walking up to a girl on the street you don't know and putting your lips one inch away from hers and talking to her? If she kneed you in the balls, would any jury convict her of battery?
Suppose you are walking down the street and someone begins to approach you.
Step 1: Make eye contact. If you look away, you are giving submissive body language and look like prey. You look weak. An aggressor will use that as a que to attack you. Additionally, you cannot see the attack coming. Ironically 99% of people in America are passive and will not make eye contact with you. Try it. When you walk around outside, try to make eye contact with everyone who walks past. 99% will intentionally avoid it, or be too into their own self (i.e. cell phone/iPod).
Step 2: Raise your hands in a defensive but non aggressive manner if your outer "radius" is breached. If someone has no reason to walk near you, and they continue towards you, raise your hands in front of your chest. It will allow you to defend yourself rather than bringing your hands up from your waistline.
Step 3: Speak. Say "Hows it going?" in a firm, but non threatening manner.
Step 4: Move laterally if they continue towards you into your personal space. Increase the tone/strength of your speech "That's close enough buddy/ I have HIV/I have the flu/Stand back"
Step 5: Introduce yelling and cursing into your commands "GET THE FUCK BACK!" Street people respond to profanity.
Step 6: Be prepared to engage with bare hand and/or weapon as the situation dictates.
A few notes:
1) Do NOT unholster your firearm unless you are ready to use it and shoot the threat. Do not draw to intimidate. Do not draw if you are not justified by law to use lethal force in self defense. If the gun comes out, you MUST shoot the person, except in an instance where they immediately turn their back and start running before you have a chance to squeeze the trigger. If you are trained and draw your firearm smoothly and efficiently, that should never happen, but I mention it because it probably won't be self defense if you shoot the guy in the back as he's running away.
2) Get training. You can't do any of this without training.
3) Practice your training. All of it. Including the yelling. Some people are timid by nature. You need to at least act aggressive for a few moments. If that's not in your nature, you need to practice more.
4) Acting aggressive will significantly reduce your need to shoot someone. Law Enforcement are trained with a use of force matrix that escalates their response depending on the threat. The very top level of the Force Matrix is "presence" because if a bad guy continues to do bad things in the "presence" of a uniformed law enforcement officer, then the situation is immediately escalated because 99% of people will stop doing bad things in the presence of cops. Use "presence" to your advantage.
5) Don't put yourself in situations where people can get the drop on you. Sit with your back to the wall in a restaurant. Do not sit near the restroom because then people have a reason to walk near you, and thus your radius is reduced. You can't yell GET THE FUCK BACK to everyone who walks near you if you are sitting next to the bathroom.
6) Criminals sense weakness and target prey. There's a bunch of other potential victims. If you have good situational awareness, make eye contact, and appear aggressive if people invade your radius, then the criminal will simply find an easier victim. Crime is a business. It's not worth their effort to take you down if they can take down someone else much easier.
7) It's always best to run away. Shooting someone in self defense can cost $100k+ in legal fees for criminal and civil law suits. The 16 year old with 25 prior arrests that held a knife to your wife that you shot? His grandmother will be on TV telling everyone how her baby would never do anything like that, and you killed him because you're racist. If you think I'm exaggerating, I could probably find no less than 100 cases of this exact thing happening in the last few years around the country.

The police have no duty to protect any individual citizen. The supreme court has ruled this to be the case. You're on your own if things get really bad.
9) Use good judgment i applying these principles. Always trust your gut. Imagine you are walking down the street at night. No one is around. A group of 3 teens fitting a criminal profile are walking towards you about 100 feet in front of you. You cross the street and continue walking. They cross the street too. You cross the street back. They follow.
Guess what? My hand is going to be on my gun, under my shirt, and I'm going to be shouting profanity at this point for them to leave me the fuck alone. I will not use threats. I will not state that I have a gun. At this point, it's clear they intend to do you harm. This leads me to point 10:
10) If they get the drop on you, you're screwed. If you're not paying attention and all the sudden 5 guys have circled around you with knives asking for your money, then you're probably not using your gun at that point. Thus, as mentioned previously, a gun is not a magical talisman. It's a tool to be used in your toolbox when appropriate. There are other tools, such as presence, followed by verbal commands, to include escalating loudness and profanity that should be used first.