MachineGhost wrote:
Why isn't it the young and uneducated or the young and poor or the poor and uneducated or whatever mix is relevant, cannot have a natural distaste for late-term abortions as they do for murder or cannibalism? Late-terms abortions is not a huge problem in general, but it seems to be a huge problem for this particular demographic group.
I think one problem is that the young uneducated poor etc. DO have a distaste for abortion, but at all stages. As reality hits--constant pregnancy related illnesses, the crushing expenses of a pregnancy (not all of which are economic or financial) beyond prenatal care, the reality of an upcoming major life change, the lack of honest support, abandonment by loved ones--the pregnant woman finds that common inertia has led to actual decisions being put off until sometime after the magic third month. And because women's reproductive health in general has been reviled (no biology based sex education, no access to contraception, reintroduction of religious "Curse-of-Eve" philosophies into public schools, no pre-pregnancy education about what it's really like to care for an infant, etc.), legit abortion clinics have closed, and it may take several more weeks to find a place that will perform any abortion. Hence, late term abortion.
Pregnancy has a ticking clock going from the time of conception until the end of the pregnancy. During that ticking clock, lots of legal, economic, life, etc decisions have to be made, and many of them are irreversible. Most females don't realize they're pregnant until a month or two of that ticking clock time has elapsed.
And then there's that statistic--most employees are two paychecks away from destitution. Collecting the funds for an abortion may take weeks, hence long term abortion. In some areas politically powerful people have imposed their religious beliefs on everyone in that jurisdiction, and the process for actually getting an abortion once the woman decides to do it has many legal and social obstacles put in the way.
By the time she collects the funds and jumps through artificial hoops, it's too late for an early term abortion.
Hoops, as in, "You gotta look at this movie about how human your baby looks. Then you have to have an ultrasound and take the images home before you can call back in two days and make an appointment to come back and talk to a doctor. And after you talk to the doctor, you need another appointment to have the procedure. There is a 3 week waiting list for that. Oh, and you have to pay cash for each mandated lab test, for each office visit, the procedure, and aftercare."
That's not including those who find out (in a totally wanted pregnancy) to their horror, that the fetus they're carrying is developing, for example, without a brain, or has died in utero. Or is developing in a way that continuing the pregnancy will endanger the woman's life (developing in a fallopian tube, for example, or in a pregnant woman who is developing an aortal tear--examples of situations that at any time can cause a rupture resulting in instant death). If the woman dies from this, the children she now has will be left without a mother, or even orphaned. Hence late term abortion.
As RuralEngineer said about D1984, it is possible to be two standard deviations outside of the norm on an issue. I would sat that would apply at both ends of the bell curve. That means the majority of people--including the women who find themselves having to make a heartbreaking decision--don't "like" abortion, late-term or early-term, and don't view the prospect of bringing a human being into the world with the same stark vision as D1984 expressed. That fact alone should be reason for hope.
The economic consequences of having an unwanted child must truly be soul-crushing.
Not all the soul-crushing stuff surrounding an unwanted pregnancy is economic or financial.
If one is a rape victim, for example, the prospect of carrying the rapist's fetus is soul-crushing, and the knowledge that for the rest of the woman's life she has to look into the face that reminds her of her attacker and KISS, CUDDLE AND SMILE at it, is soul crushing. (BTW, since only a minority of rapes are reported and only a few are ever adjudicated, the likelihood that this situation enters into an abortion decision is high. This includes rapes that occur within a marriage.)
Being abandoned by family members, the father, even society, is soul crushing. Don't forget we live among many cultures, some with traditions that may permit or even compel certain family members to defend the family honor by killing an unmarried pregnant female, or a female who marries the "wrong" person and compounds the "dishonor" by getting pregnant. Adoption is not what it used to be (secret), and with good reason, but the new rules increase the possibility for additional soul crushing--including for the innocent person who learns he or she resulted from rape, or from the kinds of intrafamilial sexual abuse that leads to an incest pregnancy before the abuser is locked up. Other examples are a lot less dramatic but no less real.
It's also soul-crushing to have to terminate a pregnancy when you were really ecstatic about welcoming a new person to your family.