MachineGhost wrote:
Pointedstick wrote:
What's so deeply unsettling about admitting that there may be contradictions or issues with your chosen belief system?
Doubt is the MOTHER of all f!ck ups!
I'd like to share something personal about certainty. My father is a very rigid man, an extreme Democrat for whom everything liberal is good and everything conservative is bad. To him, this is the most natural thing in the world; practically self-evident, and worthy of constantly remarking on. But to nearly everyone around him, his blind zealotry is awkward and off-putting. Yet he couldn't see it. Never could, never will. I remember as a teenager feeling so sad at how he would try to contort his brain to fit everything into a narrative of "Democrats=good, Republicans=evil." There was a desperation to it, as though a nagging voice of doubt inside was constantly threatening to unmask the whole thing, held in check by a herculean effort to lock it away deeper and deeper. As a young man, I rebelled by trying to engage him in politics (at the time I was a budding libertarian), and discovered that he actually secretly harbored many conservative views but didn't realize that they were conservative; the moment he realized that he was agreeing with something a Republican had said, it was like a light switch flicked off; he's become agitated and sometimes fly into a rage, trying to suppress the unclean thoughts.
It's left me with a lifelong distaste for rigidity and certainty. And I see some of that here, the way people defend their view rather than really questioning it and examining its precepts and assumptions.
In a way, I think that it betrays a lack of faith in the belief. If you really had absolute faith in its truth, wouldn't it be the most harmless thing in the world to poke at it from every angle? Wouldn't that actually make you feel better about it to see it withstand attack like a ten foot-thick wall, as opposed to cradling it tight, trying to protect it from hostile ideas, as thought it were a precious crystal that might shatter with the smallest impact?
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