I distinguish between that which I am forced to give (e.g. via taxes and the like) and what I choose to give (e.g. charities and church). My attitude is relative apathy or grumbling acceptance for those I am forced to give to, which do not seem in my head to be giving in the spirit charity should be, and cheerful giving to those I choose to give to. I give because it just seems the right thing to do and could care less what anyone else thinks - in fact, I rarely if ever tell anyone what I'm giving or to whom. I give because I might be in the needy situation some day and hope that someone would help me. I give because I like to think I may have helped someone less fortunate that I am. I give thanks that I'm able to give. Just me.MangoMan wrote: As is always my Thanksgiving tradition, I typically write donations checks to my 10 favorite charities this weekend each year. I mentioned this to a friend at dinner and his comment was that we are all already donating a huge amount of money to a variety of social programs that we may or may not believe in or agree with, and therefore he felt he was already contributing more than enough to social programs, the poor, the sick, etc., without the need to make any additional donations to official charities.
Well, I wrote the checks anyway, but he did make some persuasive arguments. It really got me thinking more about the whole issue.
1. Anyone care to contribute to the pros and cons of this viewpoint?
Also, another friend at the table commented that while he does give to his own favorite charities, he is a little offended when friends and family members ask him to contribute to their favorite charities, as he would rather direct his allotment of donations to the causes he holds dear, but generally feels not only obligated to honor the request, but also not look cheap in the process.
2. Is this a valid thought process?
And I thought politics and religion were the only taboo subjects.![]()
... Mountaineer